Open Question: i really hate my dad?

29/08/11

firstly my whole entire family hates him, everything about him. his attitude, his exaggeration, and aggression. im 15 years old and i cant stand my father any longer he is so moody all the time and he has nothing to be moody for. we are all a healthy family we live very comfortably and get a lot of luxuries he is though still very carful with our money, we are happy children and my mum is lovley. i just wish my mum had a bit more strength to leave him, she always talks about leaving him but never actually does. my dad is always screaming and shouting even if its something like to turn off the oven. he doesnt appreciate how hard i work in school (especailly me as i struggle in school but try my best) theirs nothing ells more i can do other than try my best i revise and study so hard and it will only get me to the most just a pass. i worked hard this year on my GCSE’s really hard and all he can say is “i don’t think you did well in maths, you need to start studying for retakes” when firstly i worked exremley hard and my dad is saying “i dont think you did well” what kind of message is that. and i am in my summer holiday this is my only break ever and he is ruining it. my dad always wants to know my buisness and in detail, you would think it is because he cares but he just wants to dictate and embarrass me infront of my friends. one time i was sleeping at my friends house because it was her birthday and that night she was having a party but my dad for no reason whatsoever calls me i stupidly answer and he says come home now. FOR NO REASON. i want more freedom before i say bye to my friends and go off to college. he still treats me like a kid. i never miss behave NEVER. i clean my room and do chores even when not asked and my best is never good enough. he makes me feel like a failiure. my friends are scared of him as they are always interrogated and feel uncomftable. he ruins my socail life so much. i envy al my friends that have loveing supportive dads that can share jokes with. this is only that half of it but it would take me a long time to write it all down. and my poor easy going loving mum gives me everythhing a child needs ; shelter, nutrition, love, care, and laughter. i wish my dad was like that, my dad is way too overprotective but thats not even because he wants to protect me just dictate my actions.

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