About 3 months ago my best friend lost her little brother in a terrible accident. Throughout the first two months of him not being here anymore, she seemed to be doing okay. She held it together well, for her friends, and her mom. and she is still trying to but i think its taking a toll on her.

She holds back her feelings. She has developed extreme OCD about a lot of things, especially how much she works. Its like an addiction to her. its all she talks about, its all she does. She works almost 35 hours every week, if she does not reach around 30 hours she stresses out and starts to panic(she is a junior in highschool.) I believe this is how she is taking out her grief. She likes to be alone all of the time. she has become increasingly forgetful.

Shes so different from the first two months after his death. Is it because it might just be hitting her now? I feel helpless, like all i am doing is sitting here watching my best friends heart and sanity break, and all i want to do is somehow help. I know all i can do is be there, listen and comfort her but there has to be more that i can do. Please if you have any experience with this would you please tell me what you would want? any advice at all is much appreciated. thank you!

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