Open Question: My parents are getting a divorce?

29/11/11

My parents are getting a divorce. I don’t know how to handle this. I have accepted the spit up though it was a harsh agreement to make with myself. I can’t change there minds for them. What is upsetting about this experience is its taking a serious toll on my father and I don’t know how to help him. I can’t just turn my back because he stepped up and took full responsibility of my little brother and my Dad is veteran with a disability. Its hard on his but his children come first. I help out with shopping, cleaning up his house ect.. The big problem is my mother didn’t give a reason why she wanted to go. She just went and it has tore my family all to hell. It’s been a few weeks since this mess happened and my Dad won’t give up hope that she will come back. She done told me she will never come back… My father is a good person he never controlled her, put a hand on her, He busted his tail off to provide everything for her. If she needed someone that was a million bucks he would brake his back to make sure she had it. What was the problem? I’m not sure. My father keeps asking me if my mother has mentioned coming back home to me. She said she will never. Its tearing him up. He wont accept the spit up. I don’t want to lie to him and say it’ll work itself out Dad she needs time. She made her mind up. I don’t want to destroy him anymore then she already did. I don’t believe in false hope. My Dad wont let go because she is still talking to him, she will yell and him and then do something nice for him and my little brother. It gives him hope though it is destroying him not helping him. I told her just to stay away from Dad all she is doing is hurting him more. She makes im feel like he may have a second hope. I believe she is stringing him along. I don’t want to hurt my Mom I love her more then my own life. But when she just walked out on my Dad and little brother. I kinda put them walls up. I don’t know if she see what she is doing to him. I need advice on how to help my Dad. I don’t want to give im false hope. I have given him false hope just to ease him mind with him taking heart medication. I don’t want to see my father brake down over something like this.. Please all comments are helpful

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