Open Question: PARENTS ONLY! I need Advice please.?

30/07/11

So I’m 15, and the reason I’m only asking for another parents judgement is because I think you guys will understand a lot better than kids. I just want to know why my dad does this- ok so I’ll just sum the story a bit and tell me who’s wrong? And why my father does this. I promise no exaggeration.
Ok so the other day my father yelled at me in my face really aggressively. I tried saying something to him but he just kept yelling telling me to go to my room. I did. I cried an was very upset. So NOW just like 30 minutes ago, he comes home and says “HEY SHANNEN, IT’S ME PHYSCO” (I told my mom he was) and I said hello. He asks me what I was making and I was giving him short answers not snobby. I told him. An he says what’s wrong with you? I say nothing. He says WELL OBVIOUSLY YOUR GIVING ME ALL THESE SHORT ANSWERS. I say yes because I’m still upset about the other night. He says “get over it, it was two days ago” I say “well I’m not”. he literally slams the door and screams blah blah “GODDAMMIT SHANNEN” and I don’t say anything jus walk away to my brothers room. He comes back in and says give me your phone… Now, this is the first time I said this and stood up for myself. I said no… And he furiated!! Screaming left to right and I kept very calm. And told him to calm down and stop yelling. And kept asking for the phone. Again I say no because this time was not fair. Eventually we kinda talked it out. But I went straight to my room balling. It’s just really taking a toll on me. Am I a bad child,? What do I do?

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