Recent Posts
- Voting Question: Does this make me ungrateful?
- Resolved Question: Why did my dad leave for a younger woman?
- Resolved Question: 2005 Audi A6 vs 2004 Infiniti G35x vs 2007 Lincoln MKZ vs 2003 Jaguar S-type R vs 2006 Chrysler 300C need help?
- Voting Question: Don’t you get tired of the “if you just save and cut back and blah blah blah” you could be a SAHM?
- Resolved Question: Im real good friends with this girl and i want to date her?
- Open Question: Cutting? Possible depression or am I just stupid?
- Open Question: How do I ask my alcoholic parents to get help?
- Voting Question: Walking more???????????
- Open Question: Should I be offended at his gaming?
- Voting Question: Which is higher demand in sugarland tx plumber or electrical?
- Voting Question: I have a Question about Small Claims Court?
- Open Question: can a chinchilla use a ferret cage with out escaping?
- Open Question: Why are Indian mother-in-laws so problematic?
- Open Question: Advice for dealing with a menopausal woman?
- Voting Question: 2005 Audi A6 vs 2004 Infiniti G35x vs 2007 Lincoln MKZ vs 2003 Jaguar S-type R vs 2006 Chrysler 300C need help?
- Open Question: Gym vs sports club - which would you say is better value for money?
- Resolved Question: How do I keep my room clean?
- Open Question: Is this too much to charge for cleaning luxury homes with all natural cleaners?
- Voting Question: Im real good friends with this girl and i want to date her?
- Voting Question: Why did my dad leave for a younger woman?
- Resolved Question: Worried about my daughter, what should I do?
- Voting Question: What is a safe neighborhood in Illinois that could offer luxury and acres?
- Resolved Question: Can I get a council house at 17?
- Resolved Question: How to get my life back on track?
- Open Question: Don’t you get tired of the “if you just save and cut back and blah blah blah” you could be a SAHM?
- Voting Question: How do I keep my room clean?
- Resolved Question: Affordable media player with large video-/audio file format compatibility?
- Open Question: Does this make me ungrateful?
- Open Question: How to get my life back on track?
- Voting Question: Do you plan on living for as long as you possibly can?
- Open Question: Walking more???????????
- Open Question: Which is higher demand in sugarland tx plumber or electrical?
- Voting Question: How am I supposed to deal with this?
- Open Question: I have a Question about Small Claims Court?
- Resolved Question: I feel so down after a girl refused to meet me and ignored me like crazy?
- Voting Question: What should I do about the fact that my Mother won’t let me see my handicapped brother?
- Resolved Question: Girl’s I don’t know what to do with him?
- Open Question: Affordable media player with large video-/audio file format compatibility?
- Resolved Question: Why would anyone pay more than a million dollars for a condo unit?
- Resolved Question: Has anyone had the “All Living Things Luxury Ferret Pet Home?”?
- Open Question: 2005 Audi A6 vs 2004 Infiniti G35x vs 2007 Lincoln MKZ vs 2003 Jaguar S-type R vs 2006 Chrysler 300C need help?
- Open Question: Im real good friends with this girl and i want to date her?
- Open Question: Why did my dad leave for a younger woman?
- Resolved Question: Why am I ashamed of myself so much?
- Resolved Question: Why do we (and our friendships) change when we’re out in the real world?
- Resolved Question: Should I be supporting my mother?
- Resolved Question: How can I tell my mum to stop smoking? Please help, I will answer yours!?
- Open Question: Worried about my daughter, what should I do?
- Voting Question: What’s your opinion on this?
- Open Question: What is a safe neighborhood in Illinois that could offer luxury and acres?
- Resolved Question: verbally abusive father, need advice.?
- Open Question: Thinking about selling my kidneys, lungs, heart and brain to pay off college?
- Open Question: Why would anyone pay more than a million dollars for a condo unit?
- Voting Question: I feel so down after a girl refused to meet me and ignored me like crazy?
- Voting Question: Girl’s I don’t know what to do with him?
- Voting Question: Has anyone had the “All Living Things Luxury Ferret Pet Home?”?
- Open Question: How do I keep my room clean?
- Open Question: verbally abusive father, need advice.?
- Voting Question: Why do we (and our friendships) change when we’re out in the real world?
- Open Question: Do you plan on living for as long as you possibly can?
- Voting Question: Should I be supporting my mother?
- Resolved Question: How do I get my wife to clean up after herself?
- Open Question: How am I supposed to deal with this?
- Resolved Question: I need replies about my husband?
- Open Question: What should I do about the fact that my Mother won’t let me see my handicapped brother?
- Voting Question: Why am I ashamed of myself so much?
- Resolved Question: what is my husband actually,the real face?
- Resolved Question: Any answer would be a blessing. I feel shattered?
- Resolved Question: How great will Heaven be compared to this rich person’s life on Earth?
- Resolved Question: i need replies on my husband?
- Resolved Question: Which dog is better? German Shepherd, Golden, Collie, or Aussie Shepherd?
- Voting Question: Can a relationship ever work if you have completely different lifestyles?
- Resolved Question: My brother who is a teacher wanted a luxury home and saved his income for 5 yrs & not house one, was he smart?
- Resolved Question: I don’t know what to do with him?
- Resolved Question: Stay-At-Home Mom Double Standard?
- Resolved Question: Female’s I do not understand this?
- Resolved Question: Female’s I don not understand this?
- Open Question: What’s your opinion on this?
- Resolved Question: Love Of My Life’s Past…?
- Resolved Question: What do you think of this idea for a fantasy story plot?
- Open Question: How great will Heaven be compared to this rich person’s life on Earth?
- Open Question: Any answer would be a blessing. I feel shattered?
- Resolved Question: Is this normal behaviour?
- Resolved Question: Is this war poem good enough?
- Open Question: I feel so down after a girl refused to meet me and ignored me like crazy?
- Resolved Question: How is this fair at all?
- Resolved Question: LGBT: Have you ever felt lost?
- Resolved Question: how much does a luxury home in dubai cost?
- Resolved Question: Female’s I do not understand?
- Resolved Question: i need help about my mom..?
- Open Question: Girl’s I don’t know what to do with him?
- Open Question: Female’s I do not understand this?
- Resolved Question: Female’s I dont get her?
- Open Question: Female’s I don not understand this?
- Resolved Question: Am I responsible for my wife’s family?
- Voting Question: Which dog is better? German Shepherd, Golden, Collie, or Aussie Shepherd?
- Resolved Question: MY 15 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER IS HAVING SEX WITH MY EX BOYFRIEND AND BLACKMAILING ME?
- Resolved Question: Our Grandma spent our inheritance from our Dad; we found receipts from 89-02 as proof, do we have a lawsuit?
- Voting Question: My brother who is a teacher wanted a luxury home and saved his income for 5 yrs & not house one, was he smart?
- Voting Question: Stay-At-Home Mom Double Standard?
I’m 32 weeks pregnant with my 4th child. I have 3 other kids, 2 of which don’t listen to a single thing I say, and the other (my oldest) is always helping with the chores and never has time to be a kid. I’m a stay at home mom at the time because daycare expenses are ridiculous, and my husband who holds a full time job is also a student. We don’t get help from any sort of assistance, and 1 full time job is not enough for a family of 5 soon to be 6, so we’ve had to give up certain luxuries in life just to live. We have one car which he takes to go about his daily schedule which means I get stuck at home every day from 6am to 11pm. Doesn’t leave much time to do grocery shopping or anything else. I enjoy being able to take advantage of being home with the kids, but sometimes I wish I had some help so I could get away for a few hours. I seem to have a routine down. I wake the same time daily, breakfast, bath, snack, lunch, nap, snack, dinner, homework, and then time to relax. I clean all day long, dishes, garbages, etc… until it’s finally bed time and then I wake the next morning to do it all again. I feel I have an under-appreciation from not only my spouse, but from some who I would call friends. I try not to complain but as a woman it seems to help make me feel better. My friends tell me how lucky I am and that I should be happy, but most of them are single and don’t have the option to stay home. I envy them. I feel there is nothing worse than having to ask my husband for money when I know we barely have any. I find myself using dish soap for laundry detergent just because I don’t want to have to resort to asking for money. I can’t say that I have such a happy marriage either for reasons I choose not to mention. But sometimes I wonder if I would be better off single. At least that way, I may qualify for assistance and I wouldn’t feel as though I was a burden to my own husband. I’m trying really hard to make every second count and come to terms with my situation, but I can’t help feeling so overwhlemed. Is there anybody out there who has been in this situation that can help me figure things out?
No Comments »
No comments yet.
RSS feed for comments on this post. TrackBack URL