Hi,
Please read through the complete post before offering me advice. I have a very strange situation where i am seeking help not because i really care for a person but am under a impression that, that very person would kill herself and blame me or my entire family.
We are a family of 5 including two brothers and a sister and our parents. My sister was sent to her grandma for upbringing due to some unavoidable reasons after 2-3 years of her birth. She had good education and a good material life. While growing up she never could accept the fact that we were her family and instead treated my grandparents as her family and fostering parents. She was kinda detached completely from my parents and us and had a very neutral attitude. My mother has always been attentive to her through all the years right from visiting her to attending to her small needs.
When she went to college she left her grandparents and never returned home for a period of 3 years atleast. Meanwhile my granddad died and she didnt care to return home at that point. I used to think she had a great liking for him but am not sure about it now. When she returned home after 3 years when we were vacationing she was full of crap to vomit. She directly abused parents and told my brother to be more responsible. LOL! My brother didnt owe her any fuckin thing. In literal terms she had become a bitch whom i hate to talk to!
All the pain had to be borne by my mom and i could often see her crying till the time we left. I have heard that she would threaten my family for more money to lead a lavish life. We do send her good amount of money to support her living but she has graduated and can get a job to support herself easily. But she refuses to do so and expects us to send her money to lead a life of luxury.
She once sent me a mail telling me how special i am in her life and later on ended up knowing that she would do all this to extract some money from me. This is the extent of cheapness a blood relation of yours can fall too. The bitch has a lot of boyfriends and i know she is a complete Psychotic Bitch. She plays with words inside the family and thinks her to be smart by using people.

Now, I dont speak to her anymore neither my bro. She stopped talking with Dad lately and mom’s the only person speaking to her these days. After studying her behavior for years i have concluded that this bitch is fighting a critical medical condition and needs a Councillor asap. I will never go up and offer her help coz i know she will throw it back on me real bad. I believe she may kill herself and blame all of us for all this but i really know she was never deprived of love actually from anyone.

She is a direct threat to me n my family and i need to figure out how to handle this situation. I’m posting this not coz i care for her but because she is a threat to us. Please don’t post lectures blaming us for negligence or any such thing as i know this bitch cares for none and she would have been the same had she lived with us.
@Beverly, Rachel, Miranda: Thanks for understanding our situation. I believe we are done with handling this situation. My mother has tried to handle the situation to best of her capabilities by pouring love, money and everything she could with no help. She would refuse to go to a Councillor for sure and this would light a new fire which i want to ignore.
After Beverly’s advice i’m seriously considering on consulting with my attorney but this feels like grave as my heart is not ready to accept the fact that i’ve to seek help from law to straighten up things in the family. I’ve asked my mother to end communication with her several times but she just can’t do that and continues to send money for her life. She literally cuts mom apart and spends money on luxuries. I mean how can one abuse her parents and take money and enjoy with the same.
My mother being a very conservative women wont approve of moving to law but i really need to do something about this. The only link

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