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I been dating my girlfriend for the past year or so - we met at university (I am off to do my masters (biochemistry) and she is entering her final year of her law degree).
This is a long distance relationship and she comes from a well-off family (Canadian International Student coming to UK)
We love each other to bits, but there are times where the difference of social class is noticeable and it seems to be in the way at times (She doesn’t want to impose but she led the life of luxury back in Canada) - Obviously as a student in the UK she doesn’t live with a great luxurious life but I want to provide her the things she’s had - I’ve graduated with a 1:1 and now I saved my loans to fund for my own masters (She understands my situation with becoming a carer, looking after my family cancer, cardiac related problems… etc).
We want to be together for the future, discussed that she will do her training (4/5years) here while I work to get my experience afterwards (get into PHD / med school)…
However her family seems like she doesn’t want her to be associated with me - it seems like I have brought a great dishonour to her (she showed up late to lunch 15 mins late with her family, didn’t reply to text messages to her family on the dot, I entered her uncle’s home (rich) for 3 minutes just to sit down… she sends a txt message to her rich uncle during work [distracting uncle] and I am causing her to do ‘crazy’ things…)
they said that my gf doesn’t communicate with her family and I know she cares for them deeply!
All I want to do is be with here, I cherish her, care for her and want to spend every moment with her and she does to.. but her family adding this pressure seems to cause her pain and I don’t want her to fall out with her family as she is close with them.. I will constantly show them that I respect and care for her and hopefully they will see the good within me (me being lower social status)…
I just hope that anyone can give me advice! - All I can do now I think is to show my love and compassion for her… I dunno how I can prove to the parents that I am good for her?
I have never met the family properly and I want them to know that I am this person who will stay true and loyal to my gf because I love her!
But my gf showed me an email saying that I should never be introduced to her family =(
How can I prove that I am this person who is good for her!
Hope you can answer my worries and this is what happens when I stay up in the middle of the night stressing about her…
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