Am I wrong for being suspicious my GF is lying to me and with another guy?
This past Sunday evening, my GF said she was meeting a “girlfriend” for drinks at the Penthouse, a swank bar at the top of a luxury hotel in Santa Monica called the Huntley. She doesn’t have much money and is unemployed so I thought it a bid odd for girlfriends to meet there as this place is known for charging $12-$15 for drinks and for being a bit of a meatmarket or a place you bring a date.

After a couple of hours or so I called her to see when she was coming home as we live together. She didn’t answer her phone. I called the hotel and was transferred to the bartender. I asked if she saw my GF and described her and said she would be with another girl or two not thinking she might be with a guy. After looking around she said she didn’t see her. My GF called me a few minutes later from the ladies bathroom even though I could hear the bartender from the bar. I asked when she was coming home and she said she would be leaving in about half an hour.

I have been with my GF for about 18 months now. In all this time she has never introduced me to any of her friends and she never answers my calls but always calls me from the ladies room. Also, on at three other occasions, she has said she was out with a girlfriend when I later learned she was actually with a guy. Two of those occasions she was with her ex and on one of those occasions she slept with him.

So yes, I was getting suspicious. When she said she would be coming home in half an hour or so I said I would meet her there. After all, I wasn’t doing anything anyway and I was curious to meet her friend. She said “ok.”

I was at the Penthouse 12 minutes later. I looked everywhere but she was nowhere to be found! I called her phone repeatedly and she didn’t answer. Then after another five minutes she answered. I asked where she was. She said she was driving home! I was like, how could you leave and so fast! Especially when I said I was on my way! After all, they would have to finish their drinks, request the check, give a credit card then sign and leave a tip. She played it off, saying she thought I was joking. I hadn’t been joking even remotely.

So, she now says I’m being crazy. That I was in the wrong and crazy for coming to, as she puts it, “check up” on her. I think something isn’t right here and that she is hiding something from me. Why would someone say they will be there half an or so and then just 12 minutes later be already out of there? Especially when their BF said he was on his way to meet her there?

Am I being played for a fool here? What should I do?

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